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Throughout your daily activities, throughout your time out on the weekends, and in your life you will come across many opportunities to flirt with women and to make your feelings known towards people. How will you handle yourself? How will you make that gesture towards the other person to say ‘hey take notice of me!’ Follow your heart and your head, flirt a little, take notice of reactions from that other person and continue to flirt as you find yourself welcome to do so. What can you expect? What is reasonable when flirting?

Be Open

If you are wanting to make friends, be friendly and open the door to possible love flirt when you can and with whom ever you can. Be opening and honest or when flirting or you can expect to be turned down. Keep your options open when flirting with a new person. Do not limit yourself as the more you get to know the other person you may not want to continue or they may not want you to continue flirting. 

Your Body 

When you want to meet someone new, take care of your personal hygiene. No one wants to be able to smell your aftershave or cologne from across the room. Aftershave an cologne should only be used lightly and when someone standing within two feet of you could smell a ‘touch’ of your cologne –this is best. Keep your hair combed neatly, and your facial hair trimmed to your style. 

Your Attitude

Get yourself into a state of mind where you are going to be the center of attention what you have to say is important. A positive outlook of yourself and the world is important when you want to make a great impression on someone. 

Your Respect

Keep in mind that if you buy a person a drink when you are flirting, that you shouldn’t expect anything in return. Buying the drink is your choice, and when this person takes an interest in you – you will know it. Throw a smile or a wave when the person acknowledges that you bought the drink and quickly look away. Playing the cat and mouse game works for men, keeping the woman on her toes wondering how interested you really are. Respecting others and their privacy will gain the interest of others into your personality and they will in turn respect you. 

One at a Time

Do not approach more than one woman that is in a ‘group’ of women on any one given night. This gives the first woman that you approached or flirted with a chance to come back and flirt back if she is interested. If you flirt with more than one woman in a group, and one thinks you are a not a great catch the others in the group will quickly follow suit and you will have no chance with any of the women in the group. Flirting with only one woman from the ‘group’ also allows you to become more well known throughout the establishment and letting the women get to know you a little more before you approach another. 

Flirting for what?

When starting a conversation with a person, do not focus on ‘getting the date’ this could backfire and ‘scare’ the person because the person might not know you well enough yet to say yes to a date. If you would continue a conversation over the course of the night and ask the person out after you have found out you have a few things in common the question will be carried out more easily. 

Desperation

Never let the person you are flirting with realize or know that you are desperate for a date. If you haven’t had a date in months, you can still be confident in your abilities as a person in conversation that can lead up to a date if you are patient. There are many woman to date in this world, if one fails, move on to the next. Be confident and you will find the friend or mate you are searching. 

Real Compliments

When you are flirting with a person make sure your compliments are true and express your real feelings. Many first time conversations and dates are the ‘ones’ that are remembered long after you have left the room. If you like her dress and you tell her that, make sure you mean it because she is likely to wear it again thinking that you think she is sexy or alluring in that dress. When giving compliments be carefree in your conversation and sincere in what you say.

Do You Want that Number?

Be sure you want a phone number before you ask for it. If you have no intention on calling the person, don’t ask for a phone number getting their hopes up that you will call. If you play the person for a fool, pretending to like her, and don’t call – all of her friends will know your name and that you didn’t call which will make you life rougher when you want to ask another woman out. 

Space

Do not be ‘touch’ and ‘feely’ when you first meet a woman, or even if it is your second conversation with this person. Touching people even on their shoulder or hand is considered invading their personal space before you really know a person. As your conversations and flirting continues that person will let your know with a gesture of sorts if they would like you to hold their hand or for you to put your arm around them. Don’t be in a rush. The best things in life are worth waiting for. 

Honesty

If you are honest and open in your conversations you can expect the other person to be honest and open with you about their likes, dislikes, hopes and dreams. If you would base a relationship on lies you will eventually get found out and your world will come crashing down when the truth comes out which is most likely where you will loose the others persons interest.