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How will you find that ‘special man’? How will you express your interest in a person to start a conversation with someone you are just excited to get to know better? Use your abilities and confidence in flirting to express your interest to get to know someone better. If you find that a man does not take notice of your flirtations, move on and find another who grabs your interest. Men like women who are energetic, expressive and great communicators when they are getting to know you better. Use this to your advantage, get their attention, keep their attention while you have a great time at it!

Be open

Be open and honest when you are presenting yourself to a crowded room. Walk tall think to yourself that you are going to have a great time tonight. If you are walking into a room thinking about what a ‘boring’ place this is, your expression will show and your facial expression will turn others away from wanting to talk to you. 

Your look

Do not use too much perfume. Light and clean smells are great, but there are many people who do get nauseous when the scent a woman carries it too strong for a room. Keep your hair done up, combed, and pretty. Too much hairspray or a hair do that is too much may also make your appearance come across as you are a high maintenance woman. When a man is searching for a new friend or a lover, they are looking for an easy going fun to be with person. If you were to go out for a walk around the town, would you be more worried about your hair or making conversation and having a good time? Concentrate on having a great time, making conversation and keeping your hair in place with an easy going style. 

What do you carry?

Do you carry to much baggage? Do you have a purse the size of a briefcase? If you are known to carry too much with you every where you go a man will notice this. If you carry a small purse or handbag that matches your outfit or style a man will know that you are organized and put ‘together’. Depending on the situation and where you are, if you must carry a larger bag, use a stylish outrageous bag that will grab the attention of others around you. 

Your Voice 

Use your inside, clear voice when speaking. Do not yell, screech or shrill when you are talking to a new person. Keep calm and cool, flirt to your hearts content discussing interesting subjects of the day. 

Who is There With You?

Try to break away from the pack you came into the place with. If you came to the bar, club, dance or to the reception with others leave yourself open to be approachable. If you are sitting with three other women all night long a man won’t get the chance to walk up to you and to say hello. 

Be Assertive 

Walk up to a man and say hello, smile at them when you pass by – get their attention through a subtle look. Getting a man’s attention in the first step in flirting. After you get their attention be sure to keep it by being on your best behavior. Do not go up and flirt with everyman in the room, or the man you are really interested in will think that you already have enough friends and that you may be interested in someone else. 

Your Posture 

Stand straight, walk tall, and walk with style. Do not slouch in your chair, if you have a good body flaunt it. This doesn’t mean showing off bare breasts or wearing your skirts with slits to high this simply means if you have a good body and your sit, walk and stand with good posture your body will be accentuated no matter what you are wearing and getting the eye of a man because you are confident enough to feel good about your body is a start in attracting someone. 

Talk 

Learn to talk about interesting subjects. Ask the person who you are speaking to what they do, what do they like best about their job, have they always lived in the area, what do they drive, how did they find out about the place where you are (in the club etc), and what kind of music do they like. It is easy to start conversations while sitting in a group, dancing a slow dance, playing a game of pool, or sharing a space at the bar. Just talk about whatever might come to mind without being to personal which would be a turnoff to some men. Talk about the game on the screen, the video on the tv or the picture handing on the wall. Keeping your conversation lively while not focusing on personal subjects is a learned trait that you will be able to pick up in no time at all by keeping focused. 

You 

Be yourself. If you are a single mother, recently divorced or just broke up with someone - you don’t have to mention it until he asks but don’t lie or your relationship cannot continue based on lies. He may or may not have baggage of his own that you will also have to decide about if you are seeking more than a friendship. 

Flirt!

Don’t be afraid to make the first move. You can walk up to a man and say hello in passing letting him know you are interested. You can buy a man a drink and he won’t expect anything in return or more than that. Don’t walk over and talk to a man after buying him a drink, simply wave or smile when he thanks you and keep him guessing about how interested you are. This is a compliment in itself because the more intrigued a person is about another this suspense build up with the flirting can be stimulating. 

Be Yourself

If you are asked to give your number be honest. If you want to give your number out give the correct phone number where he can reach you. You never know when you might run into this person again and if you gave out the wrong number you can be sure all the rest of his friends will know what a ‘tease’ you are. If you don’t want to give out your number, you could simply reply that you are available through seeing you at xxx place on a given date, letting him know that you would like to get to know him a little better in a public place before getting to personal and private with him.